Wednesday, December 30, 2009

Mobility?!

Incredibly, the age of mobility began very early for Evie, which is probably the primary reason that I haven't updated this blog in so long. I have been too busy retrieving various bits of paper and carpet fuzz from E's mouth that she has so deftly pinched off of the floor. So yes, Evie was mobile (army crawl) by 6months, crawling at 7 months, and starting a few weeks ago (she turned 8months on 12/21) she can pull herself up to standing and 'cruise' around while hanging onto things. This has proven to be a sleeping nightmare since now she can stand up in her crib and jump up and down but can't get back down very gracefully. Sigh. We are still living in my parent's basement at this time (which has been a huge blessing). The renters that are in our house are supposed to move out today, but then we still have to do some work on the house before we can move back in, so hopefully by mid January Evie's bed will finally be farther away from my ears.
Daniel is hoping to start his counseling classes at Covenant in the summer or fall (probably the fall) and is really enjoying working with Live at Peace Ministries.
I am working 2 nights (overnights) a week at a nearby Emergency Room and unfortunately have a long way to go before feeling comfortable and at home there. Never having worked in an emergency room before, I was totally unprepared for the social dynamics there. I really thought that all of those TV shows that were like glorified soap operas staged with people bleeding in the background were so overly exaggerated but I am starting to think that they may actually have been filmed at my job.
I was, and still am, incredibly astounded that work environments like this actually exist. I feel like I am back in high school, and since I thought that most of what went on there was immature then, I really think that what goes on at this job is beyond immature and extremely unprofessional. In short, I am being hazed.
Genoa, on the other hand, is doing great and loving being around all of these family members that she had up til now only seen occasionally. We are still working on trying to make her a little more flexible, she is a die hard creature of routine. For example, when going to bed at night, all lights must be off in the room (no nightlights allowed with this child), then all 7 of her stuffed animals must be inventoried to be sure that all of the correct animals are in the bed. All stowaways that don't belong are tossed out and any animal that is missing must be searched for and returned to its spot in the bed. Teeth must be brushed and juice drank (sp?) though not neccesarily in that order. Then prayers are said and the 'tucking in' process begins. This takes a while as there are several blankets that must go in a certain order. Then the door must be closed. It cannot be open even a crack. Falling asleep is a very private endeavour. Then about an hour or so of talking over the day with her animals occurs, during which time reenactments of various consequences or unique occurences of the day are played out in elaborate detail.
For example: We went to Daniels uncle's house in Michigan for a few days after christmas. While we were there, Genoa had a bout of extreme constipation that involved a lot of 'prairie dogging' during the day that never actually produced any 'waste' results. Bedtime came along, which is a whole separate story since all four of us were sleeping in the same room (in light of above bedtime routine, this was a nightmare), and Genoa went to bed without ever producing the results of her digestive process.
3:30 am. Screams pierce the night. Buttock cheeks are clenched. Mama says, "just let it out!". "No, No, Gehwa not let it out!". Repeat conversation 10 times. At 1 bajillion decibels. Evie is thankfully dead to the world, though I can't say the same for the rest of the house full of people. A lot of desitin, a bathtub and much screaming later, half of the desired 'turd' was produced (pried rather). Genoa is so tired she is falling asleep in the bathtub. Back to bed we go.
6:30 am. Deja vu. Repeat above paragraph with the ending being, Mama and G in the shower. Finally, the 'Night of the Living Turd' is past, along with any sleep we were going to get that day. Ahh, did I mention that Evie did wake up 3 times in Genoa's breaks?
So anyway, these are the types of events that G reenacts in her bed at night with her animals. Last night, I heard her in there saying, "Bear, its okay. Push it out! Good Job! You got the turd out! Awww, Good Job, you did it, you got out a turd!" Of course, retelling of these events are not neccesarily limited to bedtime, they are also shared at other times of the day like dinnertime. She also like to change her animals diapers over and over, and would you know it, everytime that diaper comes off its, "Oh look, its a turd!".
Evie Lion










Genoa Smooches!



Thursday, September 17, 2009

Daniel is really enjoying his internship with Live at Peace Ministries. He works about 30 hours a week, but his schedule is very flexible, so we still get to see him quite a bit. He is learning a lot about his interests and his gifts and also about areas that he is definitely NOT gifted in! =)

Genoa is growing 50 miles a minute and regularly "reads" (recites) several of her standard bedtime reading books cover to cover. The classics include Go, Dog, Go and the Clifford Counting Book, just to name a few. (Have you noticed a theme with her books? Yes, thats right, it's DOGS) (sorry, still not getting one). She is also very interested in SHARKS, and pretends like she is a shark all the time. She also conveniently uses sharks as a ploy to get out of the bathtub. Just at the pivotal moment when she is covered with suds and her hair is shampooed into a mohawk, suddenly there is a shark sighting in the bathtub. Who can argue with a slick as weasel snot 2 year old frantically trying to claw her terror-stricken way out of a bathtub because JAWS is about to attack. sigh. I think it is going to be showers from here on out.

Evie definitely seems to think that if she jumps hard enough in her 'Johnny-jump-up', she might actually get somewhere, somewhere out of reach of her older "loving" sister. At least she might get to the moon. She has also learned her own special version of Peek-a-boo. It works like this, smile at Mama as she places you in your crib, then scream as if the Apocalyse is upon you the moment she is out of sight, then immediately smile and coo again upon her return to view. See? Peek-a-boo.

I am now embarking on the task of finding a job. I am somewhat ambivalent in my feelings on this subject at the moment. I do tend to get a little stir-crazy and so I don't mind the thought of going back to work. But at the same time, I don't want to miss a moment of my children's lives. Hmmmm.....ah-ha! work nights. Yes, that is what I will be doing. Just praying for some wisdom about where to do that, and praying that the Lord will impress upon my future employers heart to be gracious with me and allow me great schedule flexibility AND great pay! Nothing is impossible for God, right?! I have already applied at three different hospitals for a total of 5 different positions and now I am just waiting to see how it all plays out through the interview process.

Slow days

Nana and her bonnet girls
Been quite a few couch nights lately. Booooo.


This is where Genoa lives, the people who come to push her just cycle through.

One big pile of dirt= a long afternoon of play!



Evie with Afi


Ooooo, these blog posts are getter fewer and farther between. I think part of the reason is that our camera is broken so I keep having to borrow other people's cameras because I hate posting without pictures (since I know that is really the main reason why people come here, wink, wink).

WARNING: The following video is very 'Blair Witch Project' shaky.

video

Sunday, August 2, 2009

Reflections on visiting churches

I hate to say that we are 'church-shopping'. It sounds so consumer driven and materialistic. Maybe this is more like God teaching us a life lesson entitled 'How to discern the place God wants you to serve'. But that is really to long to say and 'church-shopping' is so much more catchy.

We visited a church today that is 37minutes away from our current abode. That in itself is a big negative to me, but didn't throw it out of the running considering we could always move closer. We drove into the parking lot and were shuttled like so many lost sheep (no Christian pun intended) by parking attendants past the rows and rows of full parking spots to one of what appeared to be the last three parking spots available, back in East Buffoo Slacker/Late People Parking Land. Our journey then played out as follows:

1.Wrestle two small squirmy children out of the car and attached all of their accompanying acoutrements to any available parental appendage and commence the trek across the blacktop desert to the front door.

2.Cross the threshold into the sanctuary of the building where believers gather only to be greeted by row upon row of chairs set up in the lobby? Sorry, this showing is sold out, come again? No, just kidding, they didn't turn us away, but apparently we did show up for the 11:00 BYOCBTSIF (bring your own chair because the sanctuary is full) service.

3. Settle down on 'waiting outside the bathroom' style benches plopped down in the middle of the lobby so that you can have a view of the service televised on the available screen. Crane neck to peer between the people seated in front of you (who are unfortunately sitting on bar stools, and so you have an unnaturally clear view of their hindquarters).

4. Try to occupy RAFM (run away from mommy) disordered child with various small and possibly dangerous items dug out of diaper bag because child cannot go to the already horrendously overpacked child care area as there are no more spots available. Quite literally, no physical spots.

5. Mid-service before mentioned RAFM child decides it is 'make a break for it or bust' time while mommy is breast-feeding small portable child. RAFM child throws hideous tantrum when apprehended by daddy and decides to hide from daddy where she will never be found, under mommy's nursing cover with portable child. Funny how the whole point of the nursing cape/cover is to hide momma, not function as a fun lift and look toy for RAFM child. sigh.

The moral of the story is: I cannot possibly form an opinion about this church based on this one experience. Surely this has got to be a fluke.

Saturday, August 1, 2009

I have these moments in life when I feel like I am at the top of the roller coaster, just about to drop. The anticipation of the flying stomach sensation, and then the ensuing battle of your stomach to leave your body as you start that first descent is a feeling that apparently some people find highly enjoyable. Not so, me. I like the part after that part. The part where you know that you will indeed survive this ride. When you start enjoying the ups and downs and feeling the breeze in your hair and the bugs hitting your teeth.

Getting started just always seems to be the hardest part for me. I feel like I am sitting at the crest of the first drop right now, looking down at all the twists and turns in store. Not able to see every turn, and wondering if I will be able to make it to the end of the ride without losing my lunch. There is so much unknown when you are starting new jobs, leaving school, looking for a new church, trying to find new friends.......hmmmm.

Monday, July 27, 2009

Sooo...


Fun at the Elkhart County Fair

At the Renton's Pond

Evie chillaxin with Peter Renton



Evie smiles!




Da Gurls and Afi (Ariella's Dad)





A girl has got to have a trendy hat, okay.




Sick and Cranky.
So, I took about a month sabbatical from blogging. Not intentionally, but sometimes it just seems like when you have the most stuff to write about, you have the least amount of energy. We just recently returned from what should have been a six and a half hour (one way) road trip to Nappanee, Indiana to visit our friends the Rentons. Obviously with children, things tend to take a little longer. We drove during the day to get there, and that didn't work so well. The laptop that we were planning on using to play movies conked after about 1/2 hour and Genoa slept for a total of 1 hour during the whole trip, which ended up lasting about 8 hours.
So on the way back we figured maybe we should drive through the night, so the kids could sleep. Apparently Genoa thought that only applied to Evie because she didn't fall asleep until about 1 am, and was absolutely hysterical for probably about 3 hours straight.
The good news is, Evie slept through it all, God bless her. Toddlers and cars are just not a good mix.
The transition to life here in St. Louis is multi-faceted. In one sense, it has been a huge relief to be able to take a break from work and the busyness of ministry, and just enjoy our extended family that we haven't seen a lot in the past few years. It also somehow feels just a little bit like failure, or maybe backtracking. I think we are both realizing that we had great plans about our glorious future serving God, and those dreams didn't involve moving back in with my parents and being jobless. It makes me laugh how far off I always am with my guesses about what is coming around the next corner!
I am intensely enjoying my family right now. I feel like I did in grade school when we got more than one snow day in a row. Stolen moments of fun and relaxation, that you know can't last forever and you feel a little guilty for having, but you are gonna live out for all they are worth anyway. I think I need a cup of hot chocolate now.




Sunday, June 21, 2009

Happy Father's Day!!!








We love you lots and lots Daddy!